The SAturn/Mars is conjunct my n Sun. It definitely did not feel comfortable, I felt isolated, lonely, abandoned.
My daughter is moving to stay with her partner and it was quite of a shock too.
She's only 23yo, I had/ have reservations, because they have been together for only a month, you can hear all short of stories in the news, you never know.
Of course she is an adult, I will definitely be by her side and I remind her that this is her house too and she may return any time she wishes. I will have to meet her partner one of these days, I advised her to meet people in her partner's environment too. Maybe, just maybe, I can spot something she cannot, being so much in love and stupefied.
One of the reasons for her leaving is her not so good relationship with her father/my husband who does not approve of her life style and is unwilling to listen to the other's story. He is being selfish and stubborn, he won't accept that people are different, especially young people nowadays . Of course this has been a major blow to his Leo pride.
I don't know what I feel, I stand in between.
Of course all this took place on the eclipse day, no wonder the shock, as it was exactly opposite my daughter's n Sun, conjunct my n Saturn/ Venus and square my husband's n Jupiter in cancer.
The story of my life: I am always affected by eclipses when they hit me! Same goes for my daughter too! She has placements at neiboring degrees. I cannot tell how some people are not affected by eclipses, as they claim, or they do not know what to expect/ keep wide orbs.