Penguin Trauma
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The only bit I know about Horary is his significator (sun) making an applying square to yours (Saturn). Suggests a return, but maybe by text, communication, given Sun Gemini.
Angular houses, so probably quite soon (days I think?)
Sun in 4th representing the end of the matter. Maybe an end of this current argument and confusion, getting it resolved, but not without some discord first (the square aspect)
But, don't question or second guess yourself on whether you were being "smothering" - anyone would be concerned over an illness, and it's natural to check in on them.
And him getting defensive over his Facebook post and accusing you of stalking, is just plain suspect and he's just uncomfortable with you calling him out on a lie. And then not responding any further by acting all ghosty - which is a sign of conflict avoidance.
He's outsourcing his own uncomfortable issues onto you to deal with and take responsibility for, and worse, in silence.
Don't question whether you behaved wrong, it's up to him to take ownership of his behaviours. Illnesses or not! And definitely don't apologise!
Angular houses, so probably quite soon (days I think?)
Sun in 4th representing the end of the matter. Maybe an end of this current argument and confusion, getting it resolved, but not without some discord first (the square aspect)
But, don't question or second guess yourself on whether you were being "smothering" - anyone would be concerned over an illness, and it's natural to check in on them.
And him getting defensive over his Facebook post and accusing you of stalking, is just plain suspect and he's just uncomfortable with you calling him out on a lie. And then not responding any further by acting all ghosty - which is a sign of conflict avoidance.
He's outsourcing his own uncomfortable issues onto you to deal with and take responsibility for, and worse, in silence.
Don't question whether you behaved wrong, it's up to him to take ownership of his behaviours. Illnesses or not! And definitely don't apologise!
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